Who's Blame?

Pain becomes a frontier which when you realize you have touched it, you cry foul. Then we turn to blame someone and then perhaps God. At any rate if you analyze that who is to really blame, its you, your carelessness and may be your expectations. Actually carelessness is a superset of of having expectations from anything, not only luck or some real person, i mean anything. For at the onset only, you position yourself on wrong grounds. Life is a game and to play it, make yourself flexible. Hope is certainly a good trait but clinging one's life to it leads to disaster. Yes, its true that even then something bad happens and gives you pain. But a attitude where you make expectations less and less, actually gives to hope, or better say gives you ray of light to see all in a new way. Solutions to all twisted cases will appear then. I am not a really spritual person, but i try to analyze myself emotionally and psychologically.