LOVE AND LUST.........

"The first step of love is lust"

NO.........this is a expostulation made in frustration by a mind which has been set into motion by lust only.
then to justify ourselves we make statements like the one above.

Actually the root never accepts that its wrong. the root here being our brain which in conjunction with our heart did fall for someone and felt weak .....so weak that it could not bear to live without him or her.

since the early humanity we have been in love but humans as they are never want to accept or beleive that they have been weak at times.

so we say we have made love to each other. it is just as preposterous to assume that having sex is equal to being in love as to assume that after death there is a better life !

Love for me is acceptance that even though i feel weak ,i will and should accept it . For just holding onto it may take all my pains away.

someone to see in your heart with that intense gaze of getting right into you, that clears all your doubts and veil of darkness is lifted.

The fear from one's self is over and then no mere words are there to sooth you but the closeness to GOD you will feel by being close to the one you love.

Its neccesarily because the joy which we feel at any time makes us think of GOD( may be subconsciously for some).

now for some science...........we can divide love into three categories involving different brain systems:

1) Lust (the craving for sexual gratification), driven by androgens and estrogens;

2) Attraction (or romantic or passionate love, characterized by euphoria when things are going well, terrible mood swings when they’re not, focused attention, obsessive thinking, and intense craving for the individual), driven by high dopamine and norepinephrine levels and low serotonin; and

3) Attachment (the sense of calm, peace, and stability one feels with a long-term partner) driven by the hormones oxytocin and vasopressin.

RAJNISH PATEL........AND RAHUL...AT MARINA BEACH

OLD DON BOSCOINS AND PATNAITES.............................

RAJINISH IS AT MNR,ALLAHABAD (M.TECH)

RAHUL IS AT MADRAS MEDICAL COLLEGE...

ILP at trivandrum........kerala is a really nice

see the CRAB!!!!!



NETAJiii





not a good image but all of them ....T 80 !



vinothini........bahut tension leti hai


lake in kodai.........

nikesh,singla....maharaj..and kaneria



in kANYAKUMARI...............


hills in munnar........


MADUPATTY DAM.............



PONMUDI.....................




from the BALCONY OF TCS BUILDING AT TECHNOPARK



TECHNOPARK...............JUST BEFORE SIVAMANI CONCERT.........


NICE SIGHT.......................AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHA

PIYUSH...........SOLANKI AND OUR VERY OWN CHACHA......

MAYANK AND SINDHU.........................................

KANYAKUMARI..................FEEL CLOSE TO GOD..........


GAURAV ....................BIRTHDAY BASH..............

NIKESH AND PRATEET..................in PONMUDI(KERALA).......HONEYMOON TRIP ?HI HI

DIL CHAHTA HAI........................HIMANSHU...........

they alllllllllllllllllllll sleep .....but gaurav .........noooooopeeeeee

IDRIS...........KANERIA AND MAHARAJ...............................

ashuuuuuuuu..............now you know why that BILLBOARD is there ....!

i slept finally............coming back from munnar.......

ohhhhhhhhhh ...............its me.............

GAGAN ,PRATEET,ME, GAURAV AND SINDHU( L TO R)



LOMI LANI SHARMA......................................

ALL OF THEM.....................................TCSERS

KODAI......................KANALlllllllllllll

KODAI............ITS A BEAUTY

KANYAKUMARI ..............THE RISING SUN

ON ROAD TO KODAIKANAL..................

ANIL .........SIYAR .........AND ABHISHEK.........in KANYAKUMARI

ON KOVALAM BEACH.........

MADUPATTY DAM..........MUNNAR

this was too good...............i like greennnnnnnnnnnnn

some girls.............remind me of ROHIT ............JIMMY

nikesh and prateet.....................

abhishek and prateet..................

Those were one of nice days...............

main musafir......HINDI

kis mod par aa gaye ham,

soch kar paresan ho rahe hai hum,

tang aa gaye nakamiyon se,

kassor sayad lakiron ka hai,

upar wala bhi yun muskara raha hai,

aage ki raah talaste hai ham,

andheron mein yun bhatakte hue,

waqt ka ehsaas baki nahin hammein,

udasiyon mein kho rahe hamare pal,

aakhon mein nami cha gayi,

pesani par bunde chalachala aayin,

phir apni kismat par rona aaya,

aahle dil ki kwasish thi,

koi sath mera har pal de,

andheron ki syahi ko mita de,

dundh ki chadar utar de,

dikhe hamein bhi sunhali duph,

raat hamari chandani mein gujre,

bas isi kwasish mein,

har pal doondhata chal raha,

main musafir,

chup chup kar........HINDI

CHUP CHUP KAR DEKHTE HAIN TUMKO,

APNE ARMAANON KO SINCHTE HAI AISE,

HAR LAMHE MEIN TALASTE HAIN TUMKO,

NA PAYEIN TO ROTE HAIN HUM DIWANE,

SAB KHAYAL SIMATTE HAIN TUMPAR,

IS DAGAR KI MANZIL HO TUM,

SAFAR KI HIMMAT NAHIN MUJH AKELE KO,

CHOTI SI DUNIYA MEIN RAHTE HAIN,

KWAISHWON MEIN GATE HAIN HUM,

SOCHTE HAIN SUN LOGI TUM SHAYAD,

PAAS NAHIN HO TUM MERE,

EHSAAS HAR PAL HAI MUJHKO GAM KA,

CHUTE HAIN MERE KHAYAL TUMKO PAL PAL,

SAASOON KI RAFATAR INSE HI HAI KAYAM,

LAMHA LAMHA BECHAIN HAI,

SUKUN AAPKI BAAHON MEIN HAI,

KARWAAN ZINDAGI KA RUKTA NAHIN,

NAZAR AAPKI PYASE KI ZINDAGI MAGAR,

SAAM KO CHU LOGI MUJHKO,

SADIYON SE INTZAR HAI MUJHKO,

HAR LAMHA KHUBSURAT HOGA,

JAB AAP HAMARE KARIB HOGEIN,

khare hai hum........HINDI

khare hain aaj bhi usi mod par,

jahan tum chod gaye the hame,

rahein kai nazar aati hai hame,

par kadmon ka bharosa baki nahin,

kya kya ham par guzri hai,

tum kya jano,tum kya mano,

katra katra ji rahe hai ham,

har bar pukara tumko,

tum sun na sake hamko,

hawa bhi sath na deti mera,

aahein to meri tumse takrayi hoti,

har hira phi pathar laga mujhe,

aaonkhon ke lahoo aab bhi thame nahin,

har kinare par ukade kadam hamare,

har sahara door rah gaya hamse,

sirf tumse aas baki hai,

jaan bhi jyada rahi nahin,

dor tere haanthon hai ab bhi,

aasoonoun se band aakhon kho,

tere sath aane ka intzar hai,

so precious you are to me

So percious you are to me.......

none that could ever be........

now ...........

that you are away..............

i see my crying heart.......

i feel the pain yet again.........

so what if the world is at peace............

i feel no ease........

yet again.........

i cry..............

hard was to get to you...........

now i never want to lose ......

you are so precious to me..........

stay here with me...........

so i fly........

in dreams with you.......

your memories .........

yet again...........

are close to me..........

i feel no ease............

nothing can make me happy......

now that you are far away........

so precious you are to me........

secularism and lalu

before you delve further in this article,you need to know the definition of secularism.what is this ten letter word which for the last 50 years been a great platform for the sick politicians to cry their hearts out and beneath it filling their pipes full of public blood.

i will give you a good cut and paste definition :
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Secularism is commonly defined as the idea that religion should not interfere with or be integrated into the public affairs of a society.

As secularism is often used in different contexts, its precise definition can vary from place to place.

In philosophy, secularism is the belief that life can be best lived by applying ethics, and the universe best understood, by processes of reasoning, without reference to a god or gods or other supernatural concepts. Secularism in this sense was coined by George Jacob Holyoake and is one of the precursors of modern secular humanism.

When applied to society, secularism is considered to be any of a range of situations where a society less automatically assumes religious beliefs to be either widely shared or a basis for conflict in various forms, than in recent generations of the same society. In this sense secularism is linked to the sociological concept of secularization and may be upheld as an academic thesis, rather than advocated as a desirable state of affairs.

In government, secularism means a policy of avoiding entanglement between government and religion (ranging from reducing ties to a state religion to promoting secularism in society), of non-discrimination among religions (providing they don't deny primacy of civil laws), and of guaranteeing human rights of all citizens, regardless of the creed (and, if conflicting with certain religious rules, by imposing priority of the universal human rights).

Secularism can also mean the practice of working to promote any of those three forms of secularism.

It should not be assumed that an advocate of secularism in one sense will also be a secularist in any other sense.

It is also important to remember that secularism does not necessarily equate to atheism; indeed, many secularists have counted themselves among the religious.

The antonym of secularism is usually theocracy, which is a form of government where religion often plays a major or dominant role. Secularism is often associated with the ideas of the Age of Enlightenment in European history.
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If you have seen lalu in the recent election frenzy,you would have surely noticed the typical mullah standing besides him. What he means to acheive by this ......his own agenda that is 100 % success in MY(MUSLIm-YADAV) equation.

do you think he is a secular man ( refer the definition above) ?

he says he will give reservation to muslims , every rally he yells at higher castes and calls for their finishing from root...(instigation is another criminal act as said by our constitution)

another A*****E is ram vilas paswan, he thinks that he would have woooed the muslims by saying make a muslim chief minister......

..thank GOD the devils lost last time.....lets hope this time too they fight and someone good should take over them...

KORBA.............MY FIRST JOB

AHa....my first job.............sterlite industries ..................deputed to BALCO.......AS GET......

that was some place........small yet nice...........and give kudos to that place............had seven industries over there..

one of indian manufacturing hubs...................korba (chattisgarh)






shalom..................PSG .......a GOOD SOUl.........

HEY BHAI>............................... SANDEEP PRATAP SINGH

ME AND DADA............... SUTTA YAAD INKE SATH




santosh sir and praveennnnnnnn..... MY FLATMATES.......



one thing .............did not change............sutta at corners........



lots of work ..................sometime...........


the great lafua januuuuuuu..........bhaiya kk



see why he is a lafua...........




the sukhus...............paurush gupta and inder bhattt

PAURUSH BHAI....................KI HAAL HAIN



tk karthik ...................my boss..........



me amazed .............seems so...............